Spirit Journey: SINCERITY
The word “sincere” is from the Latin word for “whole” or “one growth”. An often repeated folk etymology proposes that sincere is derived from the Latin sine = without, cera = wax. According to one popular explanation, dishonest sculptors in Rome or Greece would cover flaws in their work with wax to deceive the viewer; therefore, a sculpture “without wax” would mean honesty in its perfection.
Perfection. How many of us fall victim to this luring illusion that seems to promise us a feeling of wholeness and completeness? How many of us expect this from our students? We are all shooting for that 100%, right?
Why are we afraid to be vulnerable and flawed? Why can’t we be authentic and true to ourselves?
Some of the greatest teachers I know embody authenticity and vulnerability and model these characteristics for their students. As a result, profound relationships and learning flourish and grow in these classrooms.
No “waxing over” things and filling in holes, cracks or gaps in children or teachers in order to create an illusion of perfection. The cracks or holes are the parts of us that let the light shine through. The cracks/holes/flaws are what is authentic about each of us, and it is through these cracks and the cracks of others that compassion seeps out and creates a coating of loving kindness. No wax necessary!
So, how can we bring more sincerity into the classroom?
